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Why Do Women Lose Respect As Breadwinners?

Why Do Women Lose Respect As Breadwinners?

By OREVA GODWIN The good days of our forefathers, when men were men are gone. When men proudly stood and took up responsibility and felt they had failed the family for not being able to provide for it's upkeep. But now? Men scout for women that would split the bills. The hope is that the present generation would not make our forefathers turn in their graves. Before then, let's look at how feminism has affected our homes in today's Nigeria. The first women's rights convention was held in Seneca Falls, New York, in 1848 in America. And it spread like…
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Can A Husband Rape His Wife?

Can A Husband Rape His Wife?

By OREVA GODWIN Can a husband truly rape his wife? This question is controversial in nature, and you, my dearest readers, know I am controversial in nature. Will I say I am a traditional woman? Yes, I will say I am one, but I am not an ethnocentrist. I'm an exposed mind, and being an ethnocentrist shows I have not evolved as a person. The world does not evolve around our traditions; the real world is more than that. We have to realise that tradition is not always right. Our forefathers in some instances were not good examples. Most of…
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Scores Of African Men In USA Dead From Gold Digger Wives, Many Others ‘Beaten’ To Submission, My Experience -Nigerian

Scores Of African Men In USA Dead From Gold Digger Wives, Many Others ‘Beaten’ To Submission, My Experience -Nigerian

A United States-based Nigerian Information Technology (IT) expert, Clayton Udo, has raised concerns over the struggles African men face in marriages abroad, particularly in the U.S. According to Udo, many African men have been financially drained and left in dire conditions by their wives, leading some to flee or even lose their lives due to emotional and financial distress. Addressing the issue, Udo stated, “A lot of people don’t understand what is going on in the story, or what is going on in this country when it comes to African men. I can tell you that a lot of men…
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Why Women Cheat, By Oreva Godwin

Why Women Cheat, By Oreva Godwin

Research has shown that infidelity gaps between women and men has closed up considerably. Cheating in marriage by both gender has become almost normal, because lots of women boldly come out now to admit to their friends that they cheat on their husbands. The usual reason coined for infidelity by women includes, absence of love, lack of attention from the man, no good sex, lack of money, husbands are male chauvinist, cowards ,or that they caught their husbands in homosexual acts, etc. Most writers have drawn conclusions, that women cheat when they are unhappy in their marriages, that men push…
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Battling Stigma, Seeking Love: The Struggles Of Women With Disabilities In Sokoto

Battling Stigma, Seeking Love: The Struggles Of Women With Disabilities In Sokoto

By Shafa’atu Suleiman, Sokoto In Northern Nigeria, being a woman often comes with its own set of societal challenges. Add a disability to that reality, and the barriers multiply. Women with disabilities in this region face a unique double burden—discrimination as women and exclusion as individuals with physical impairments. For many, their dreams of dignity, love, and economic independence are clouded by cultural stigmas and systemic neglect. But even in the face of these obstacles, stories of strength and resilience are emerging—stories that challenge society to rethink its treatment of women living with disabilities. The Stigma That Starts at Home:…
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