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Sex Lives Of Circumcised Women

Sex Lives Of Circumcised Women

By OREVA GODWIN Female genital mutilation (FGM), also known as female circumcision, refers to all procedures involving partial or total removal of the female external genitalia or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. It is most often carried out on young girls between infancy and age 14. In every form in which it is practised, FGM is a violation of girls’ and women’s fundamental human rights, including their rights to health, security, and dignity. FGM has no health benefits and can lead to serious, long-term complications and even death. Immediate health risks include haemorrhage, shock, infection,…
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Breaking Chains Of The Mind

Breaking Chains Of The Mind

By OREVA GODWIN Chains of the mind. As I wrote this piece, I came to the realisation of how much I've grown as to identify the chains that once held me bound, and how I confronted and broke them. I recalled when I stood in front of my mirror, naked as Eve, and spoke to myself. Yes, it looked insane, but my spirit was listening. There was an awakening, and I reminded myself that I am a god before my fears, and I broke the chains and set myself free. When I talk about chains of the mind, it's that…
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Why Lagos Men Spend So Much On ‘Runs Girls’

Why Lagos Men Spend So Much On ‘Runs Girls’

By OREVA GODWIN Who are the 'runs girls'?They are self improved ashawo (prostitutes).They don't stand on the road; hell no.They are in two categories. One set is considered to be in the lower class, and they mainly use dating apps, clubs, hotels, and pimps to secure clients. The next is the higher class. The hunting ground for high class runs girls is expensive, and the operative word is, "You spend money to get money." They constantly tip ticketing agents of airlines to let them know when top public figures are travelling by air. And they get immediate notifications when that's…
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How To Deal With Rejection After Sex

How To Deal With Rejection After Sex

By OREVA GODWIN This is one sensitive topic that has affected a lot of people, both married and single. A lot of married people are facing this presently in their marriages. The singles have faced this in their past relationships and in their present relationships. What makes someone feel rejected after sex? A lot of people feel that sex creates a relationship. Once you have sex, automatically, a relationship has started. Sex is not a foundation for a relationship. If you're a sexually active person, you should learn to have sex, if you must, because you're sexually attracted to the…
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Why Do Women Lose Respect As Breadwinners?

Why Do Women Lose Respect As Breadwinners?

By OREVA GODWIN The good days of our forefathers, when men were men are gone. When men proudly stood and took up responsibility and felt they had failed the family for not being able to provide for it's upkeep. But now? Men scout for women that would split the bills. The hope is that the present generation would not make our forefathers turn in their graves. Before then, let's look at how feminism has affected our homes in today's Nigeria. The first women's rights convention was held in Seneca Falls, New York, in 1848 in America. And it spread like…
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Can A Husband Rape His Wife?

Can A Husband Rape His Wife?

By OREVA GODWIN Can a husband truly rape his wife? This question is controversial in nature, and you, my dearest readers, know I am controversial in nature. Will I say I am a traditional woman? Yes, I will say I am one, but I am not an ethnocentrist. I'm an exposed mind, and being an ethnocentrist shows I have not evolved as a person. The world does not evolve around our traditions; the real world is more than that. We have to realise that tradition is not always right. Our forefathers in some instances were not good examples. Most of…
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Scores Of African Men In USA Dead From Gold Digger Wives, Many Others ‘Beaten’ To Submission, My Experience -Nigerian

Scores Of African Men In USA Dead From Gold Digger Wives, Many Others ‘Beaten’ To Submission, My Experience -Nigerian

A United States-based Nigerian Information Technology (IT) expert, Clayton Udo, has raised concerns over the struggles African men face in marriages abroad, particularly in the U.S. According to Udo, many African men have been financially drained and left in dire conditions by their wives, leading some to flee or even lose their lives due to emotional and financial distress. Addressing the issue, Udo stated, “A lot of people don’t understand what is going on in the story, or what is going on in this country when it comes to African men. I can tell you that a lot of men…
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Why Women Cheat, By Oreva Godwin

Why Women Cheat, By Oreva Godwin

Research has shown that infidelity gaps between women and men has closed up considerably. Cheating in marriage by both gender has become almost normal, because lots of women boldly come out now to admit to their friends that they cheat on their husbands. The usual reason coined for infidelity by women includes, absence of love, lack of attention from the man, no good sex, lack of money, husbands are male chauvinist, cowards ,or that they caught their husbands in homosexual acts, etc. Most writers have drawn conclusions, that women cheat when they are unhappy in their marriages, that men push…
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Battling Stigma, Seeking Love: The Struggles Of Women With Disabilities In Sokoto

Battling Stigma, Seeking Love: The Struggles Of Women With Disabilities In Sokoto

By Shafa’atu Suleiman, Sokoto In Northern Nigeria, being a woman often comes with its own set of societal challenges. Add a disability to that reality, and the barriers multiply. Women with disabilities in this region face a unique double burden—discrimination as women and exclusion as individuals with physical impairments. For many, their dreams of dignity, love, and economic independence are clouded by cultural stigmas and systemic neglect. But even in the face of these obstacles, stories of strength and resilience are emerging—stories that challenge society to rethink its treatment of women living with disabilities. The Stigma That Starts at Home:…
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Pa Allen: Inspirational Man of the Year

Pa Allen: Inspirational Man of the Year

By IKEDDY ISIGUZO WHAT is on a man’s mind? The answer, over the years, tended to anchor on the phallocentric psychological theories of the Austrian neurologist and psychiatrist, Sigmund Freud (born Sigismund Schlomo Freud) 6 May 1856 – 23 September 1939; co-founder of the psychoanalytic school of psychology. Libidinous as his tendencies were, the profundity of a man’s mind is doubtless. Freud’s theories probed many aspects of the mind, but they were inconclusive, conflicting and added to the mysteries about the complexities of the mind and things that motivate it.Better still, what is on the mind of a 90-year-old man?…
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