The Desire That Kills Men
FUNKE EGBEMODE I was scrolling through Facebook and I stumbled on this yet-to-be-verified ‘data’. Elumelu’s mom is 97 years. Otedola’s mom is 93 years. Jonathan’s mom is 88 years. Dangote’s mom is 90 years. Where are their fathers? Long gone in most cases. Did you notice the unsaid and unwritten insinuation that the women are somehow at fault and should be found guilty of ‘long life’? But I won’t let the insinuation distract me, after all, my father has celebrated his 90th birthday and my mother died five years ago. There are men who are also 95 whose wives died…












